Bostongirl How can you say that she was not his priority then and she is not going to be his priorities now. Yeah.. it is fair to speculate but is is not fair to be absolutely certain. If you can say this about her EX then you have just opened the door for speculation about her current boyfriend as well and all her future boyfriends. What if her current boyfriend takes her out of his list of priorities lets say two years from now and calls/emails to her with an intention to get back together 4 years later just as her EX is doing right now.