But you know now what you should be doing? As I said.......! You should let both know about it and discuss and get to the conclusion. If you don't let them know now then you would never know who is the Mr. Right. Trust me once you let them know you will know who is who. The right Mr. will give you a good advise and will be with no matter what the decision will be. True lover will always be with you this way or that way. You know what I'm saying! You better work with your brain not with your heart.