I think there is more to this life here than being able to have shower anytime, clean drinking water, no bandh days etc.... I guess with a decent income one can get all of these amenities of life in most major cities of nepal-of course paying little extra. And, I think everyone has as much freedom as here to do what they want, at least in the cities...so I don't really see what you can't get in say kathmandu that you can get here... convince me....