the point is be that a man or woman, both needs to be fully sexually satisfied by their partner. If the size of the penis matters and so does knowing how to use it, and ofcouse foreplay, cuddling,making the environment sexy and lotta other things. and by the way, what lacks among most couple leading to unsatisfied sexual desire is..rush, stop focusing on making love to a girl just between her legs...u gotta make love to her all body, u gotta give importance to each part of her body..and afterall all intimacy is not only sex. but what do i know, lol i am a virgin.............atleast for last 6 freaking long months lol. chao.