although it may help to some extent, having big bust, butt, or penis do not always necessarily guarantee good sex. as someone said, sexyness depends upon how you perceive and how your mind works for others. the general tendency among men, as i see, is manipulated by age. although it may come in different percentage, the most influencing factors according to age is sth like this. 1) 16-19 yrs old--they are enticed by women with big assets. 2) 20-24 yrs old--they still look for big assets + they look for beautiful eyes, hair, lips, charming face etc. 3) 25+ yrs old--the attraction drifts towards someone who has intelligence, wit, boldness, innocence, humor (all in combo :P :P)..that's the biggest turn on (at least for me :P). and although big assets still might help, they don't contribute a lot into attraction and sexiness. bottom line, if you are looking for plain sex, big size may help even when you are 40 but if you are looking for 'making love' , then how much you love/admire him/her as a person counts the most towards sexiness. astu LooTe "A flat chested woman can be as sexy as a playboy model" -- :P :P