never mind my coments aboutthe cold jacket. didn;t realize you wer'rent married till then. I guess youll be using plastic cards now and not jackets to keep her warm. I totally agree with all the sentiments u expressed here about our culture. people fear people. They fear what will others "say" if things go wrong? I'm gonna make sure my wedding's going to be about fun and excitement and not about pressures whether my in-laws like it or not. Enjoy the married life. Sajha's boring without you. TT