I came to US three years back (2.5 years after it happened). should be read as 1.5 yrs** Thanks ss74k for the advice. It's not that easy as you are thinking. My ex was my first love and we both loved each other immensely. Now that he is back again with open arms, I cannot say NO to him. Although I respect my current bf, and commend him for what all that he has done to me, I don't love him as much as I love my ex. I am being sincere here.