well, i know sending kids away is not at all that easy. especially mothers will not agree with the idea at all. so i have a back up plan! :P. why not send both mother and kids back home in nepal for a couple of years. i know it would be difficult for father a lot. but... well let's see. i mean i know its not worth to be ambitious sometimes. i want my kids to master both languages (eng and nep) as anything. he/she should be able to write a peom in nepali and a poetry in english :P. but yes, as sajhauser said, parents can work hard to teach their kids learn to read/speak and write nepali. but then that would just be for "kaamchalau" purpose. ====== what do i know (sorry thapap, but this time i really don't know well (O:)