Mansion. we are human being ..we can change..as circumstances dictates..this is quality of human being. If you came here as student and learnt to struggle then a girl who comes as wife will also learn ..just takes time ..like it took for you. A girl who has been and seen the struggle doesn't necessarily mean that she is willing to stuggle with you after marriage . An ideal partner whether coming from Nepal or USA would stuggle with u and be with you in happy and sad times.