I have to comment on something someone said in one of their postings. The men of this generation are not dominating and women have this false notion about men. Well to begin with-- There are a lot of nice men out there who truly believe that the man and the woman should be in the same level for a marriage to survive. But believe it or nor there still are some men out there who think that they are supesior and will always have the upper hand in a relationship. There are men who also believe that if their women are smarter than they should simply not show their smartness because of course the man might appear dumber. I am not saying this to offend any men out there.. as I said there are a lot of nice caring men who think that small things like smartness and level of education should not come in between a relationship. I am just talking about what I have seen. There was this couple with their group of friends and they were discussing a controversial topic. The girl was about to express her opinion which was different than the guys and according to me more sensible. In the middle of a sentence the guy says, "Dont you see that I am talking out here. Why do u have to butt in between." I was shocked! I would certainly hate to be in this kinda relationship and would assume this is the main reason why a girl would not like to go to Nepal and get married to a guy they have no idea about. For men.. well the worst case scenario will be that the woman is liberal and independent,(not really a bad thing) and the best case scenario, she would listen, obey and do everything her man says, (which according to me is not having their own identity but for men this would not really be a huge problem). So I guess men have a smaller risk going back home to get married!