I think the career women should not waste too much of their time searching for husbands who are in the long run going to be just a big pain. They will never ever try to understand the women and there will always be combatibility issues which can create problem in the relationshiips. Instead there are other ways to make your life worthful. Why do women need men ? Isn't it because the society created it? Will a women without a man die? No so why ?? lots of women in America are facing this same problem that many Nepalese women are having right now. That is successful women having hard time finding good husbands. I know the men will always come to th e forum and write this and that and act as if they have really changed but in the end these same 30 something men will diss the carier oriented Nepali women from America and go to Nepal and marry relatively submissive wives. And the career women here will just moan and moan .... There are alternative ways of having family life as well. Single women should adopt children and take care of them. The wworld already has 6 billion people and that's too many why do we need more babies when there are millions who are dyiing without proper care, house and Family. Angelina Jolie has done this , Jessica Simpson is planning to do this and renne Zeweelger is also planning. O.K fine they are actresses they earn big money, but there are other women who are just in ordinary proffessions and they are doing it too . Nepalese career oriented women should also think of that. Every year millions of female babies are abandaned in China.Do you know who gives them home. The single career oriented American women. If they can do why can't Nepali women do it too. In America a women can do anything if she has a reasonably good salary like buy a property or a car. So they can equally provode for the Children like a man. There is no use wasting time and saying men should do this or men should do that. nepali women should also take actions like American women. Read some of these articles and see for yourself how these women's life have been enriched http://jscms.jrn.columbia.edu/cns/2005-03-15/anderson-oldermoms http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,192759,00.html http://mattes.home.pipeline.com/ http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1264/is_n5_v23/ai_12536593 http://www.rainbowkids.com/2005/04/stories/nepal_adoption.chtml