Don, I am not seeking attention here. I actually posted this story to know how people react with it. I especially wanted to hear from women/girls as they might know better about women phychology and why my gf did this to me. When one has such a guy who loves her so much and gives her so much and treat her so well, why one would do this kind of disgusting act. I never got answer from her when i asked her about this. she sometimes says she is really sorry and could not keep promise and she betrayed our relationship. on the otherhand she sometimes also says that she has no regret and she is not the only person in this world who did this and this is not a big deal. the two answer she gave me are really different and contradictory and her words and answers keep on changing with each and everyday. I also wanted to know how big is the crime that she has made. is that crime forgivable? or is that a crime or not? what is her plan when she is saying she needs sometime and space to think about it after all this. is she just trying to get away from me and asking me for sometime and later will tell me that we can not be together anymore. this is why i wrote the headline as where is this going? where is her plan if there is any and I are going? I have not talked about this to many people. Only two of my friends knows this. but no one knows that she slept with other guy except me, her, new guy and may be her family. I have not told this even to my closest friends. I wanted to make her wife and my parents wanted to be their daughter inlaw so in this situation how could i disclose such things. I posted here because no one knows me and her at the same time I can get the responses from different mind of different age group. Mind you, we both are in mid -late twenties. I wont call her immature and its not teeny weeny love.