Yawnnn!! Last one for tonight. Career or family?? A question for women... and what about men? A 2 year old wants his mama because she spends more time with the baby.. if men were to stay at home and take care of the babies then I am sure that the baby would surely say papa. Its just how the society sees it. When I was a baby and people asked me... whose kid are you? I use to say I am my dad's kid!! What you say?