sidster, I really like your points. yes I am sida sada nepali keta. I mean i am smart but i dont do such things. Never did such thing and even my close friends dont do such thing. we have done flirtign with girls but not with someone else's girl. may be you are right, she made the first move. well actually i was so open minded and i always gave her so much freedom. she has lot of friends and sometime they asked her for lunch or movies. she always asked me if i can go for that or not, and i always told her that yes you can but remember your limit. even for this guy, she asked me permission to meet him and have lunch for the first time when they met. I always thought that we are in 21st century and she is also almost equally educated like me so why we can not treat every other girl like guys. I always thought boys and girls are equal and that is what i was taught from my parents as well. I guess i should have kept my eye open all the time about her moves. i am doing now but it is too late i guess.