Posted by: Khaobaadi September 5, 2006
Love marriage thik ki arrange marriage!!!
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For Nepali girls who got higher education in the US have comparative disadvantage (against Nepali guys) when it comes to getting married I guess. I have generally heard that Nepalese girls who got higher education in the US look far more liberal husband...which is hard to find in the US and it is even harder to find in Nepal..so many choose to marry guys who either were born in the US or lived in the US since they were kids. Yeah it is an exciting and promising to get married to US raised guys/girls for both NEpali guys or girls in the first few years of marriage. In the later years of marriage the matter of cultural compatibilty becomes more and more like a thorn on your side of your butt. I always had this unresolved question in my mind. That is, why I dont see many old interracial couples who were raised or mostly raised in totally different cultures in totally different parts of the world. I guess now I'm getting close to resolving my question. I guess these interracial married couples never manage to get past their mid life together as a married couple. Meaning they get divorced after some years of marriage because of the ways they think are simply incompatiable in general due to up bringing in totally different cultures. Those who do get farthar than the most live fairly unhappy lives because they have to make huge compromises just to make the married relationship stay afloat. I guess now I can add "COMPATIBILITY" to the list of "must haves" in addition to other ingredients like committment, dedication, love etc to make a resonably successful and happy marriage.
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