"why it is so hard for her to tell me I dont love you anymore," ITS NOT HARD, SHE DOESN'T WANT TO. SHE THINKS THAT IS USELESS QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED AFTER SHE HAS GIVEN YOU BIG BLOW IN YOUR FACE.GET IT! "I dont know now if she ever loved me or not" DO YOU STILL HAVE DOUBTS THAT SHE LOVED YOU???AFTER ALL THESE THINGS. "she just used me because i have done a lot for her" YOU GOT THAT RIGHT DUDE!!YOU HAVE BEEN USED "well we respect other's wife and girlfriend, dont we? now what i hear is this guy is saying her like you just used me" THAT BASTARD IS GOOD EXAMPLE OF SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS SOMEONE ELSE'S GIRLFRIEND WHAT DO YOU THINK??hAHAH..WHO USED WHOM??WHO GOT USED??? Dude..sorry for being bit harsh on you.i know its hard but this is good advice all other have given you too.If you can don't hate her..hate means you will remember her as an enemy..Don't love her..Just forget her completely ..time is big healer..tring going out meeting new girl..you will forget.You are young ..life is not worthless wasting thinking about the biitch..Have fun.. You've got to get yourself together You've got stuck in a moment And you can't get out of it Don't say that later will be better Now you're stuck in a moment And you can't get out of it And if the night runs over And if the day won't last And if your way should falter Along this stony pass It's just a moment This time will pass