one of my friend also told me similar thing like sidster did. our relationship is more than two years old. i think she loved me as well. she used to call me everyday, sent emails everyday, did fasting in in teej, prayed for me and asked me to meet her parents and introduced me with her friends as her future husband. my friend also told me like sidster did. he also believes that one who cheats you while you are in relationship can never be a good friend and she is doing this so that she will not feel gullty and she will easily move to others keeping friendship with me. I also think i can not be friend with her. If she comes fine, if not better be enemy than a friend with her. yeah, no one cheats if he/she really loves his/her partner. i never felt like going out with hot girls of my college. there are hundreds of hot girls out here but i never got attaracted, i always thought i have one and i was happy with that.