did i ever say all men approach with insincerity? read my post again! i highly doubt on the mannerism and decency of our youth. if there is a pic of a nepali lady posted somewhere, they find 1000 different explicit things for or against it to talk about. matrimonial sites work but in a society where there is a sense of respect for women. i am just not too sure whether nepalese society take it seriously with utmost sincerity and respect for women and for the cause. i am not talking about a particular person or a group, i am talking about the society in general. we still don't have developed that kind of mentality devoid of skepticism and denial. having said that, it was high time we have such options for serious people. in this age of fast communication and internet, matrimonial sites will help to reach out to many people, its a very good option, no doubt. but still we need time to make it stand firm and proud. LooTe