leave the poor girl alone....lets face it, it's tuff being a student in united states where u have to work so hard to pay ur tuition, rent, food, etc....and top it off girls go through so much criticism.... i am sure most of us here in sajha thought about leaving everything behind the tension, the school, the headache for a short while and go to a remote place where noone knows u or just maybe go to a cave and scream.... have u ever been in a car alone where u blast the music and scream ur head off....people need a break once in while from this crazy demanding world and people have different way of coping or dealing with it, some start taking drugs, some drink, some smoke, some commit suicide..... she choose her own way.... i feel sorry for her.....