It was then I asked her the Golden Question. "Tshering, I'd like you to stay at home while I work." That's not a question, that's a statement, an order! What were u thinking Kumar when u uttered those words? U both went to law schools (which is expensive), have huge loans (unless both of your dads are millionairs) and then u order her to stay at home. The least u could have done was ASK. Personally I find nothing wrong in her leaving u. SORRY to say that, but u guys are not married and u already exercise your rights over her, were u married, what would u have done? THREATEN her? They say, "all's well that ends well", I am glad u r sponsoring kids in Nepal. Nice job!!!