BC, hahaha BC six pack corona :P....is enough to invite a brawl haina? :P....BTW, when did you last kicked an ass of a nepali? yesterday, or today? what time? hehehe....j/k i know what you're saying...i did not mean to hurt anyone in person....i wanted to project a scenario of a gathering of our community. i AM a part of it...and i don't feel ashamed at pointing out my OWN drawbacks or of my community. BB, yes you are right....i have very few sample data for analysis...but i have talked with friends from many states....their opinions do tend to resonate with mine..that is why i dared to generalize...i know bachelors parties, prom nights, friends re-union have different attributes which may not be into the coterie of our nepali gatherings--"typical ones"... and let me clarify...i am not against political debates. i do indulge myself in such...however, i believe in listening to views from different people and analyse and juxtapose mine with theirs..i think that is the most democratic way..but few parties that i have attended had me in shock, dismay and disbelief. even people who claim and actually DO have Phds and higher degrees fail to comprehend a simple democratic procedure for a healthy debate. i don't know whether its them or CORONA speaking. LooTe P.S. kundalay, i work in a lab and i go for experiments which take time to generate results...so that make me wait and hence give me time to peek at sajha. i guess it is heaven in that respect--"DOG"S WORLD" hehe