Loote's point is good. But some nepalis dont respond good to talking. They are reluctant in admiting the truth because of the fear of presenting themselves as a bad person. But As loote said i agree thatLove Should Pour From Heart. Ppl say love is sacrifice, love is a compromise, and understanding. I say love is unconditional. There are no conditions with love. No one needs to sacrifice or compromise in true love. Cos there wont be a time when u will have to make sacrifice for love. Things work our just fine when ur in a true love. Some may disagree on this and may reclaim that there is sacrifice and compromise in love. But those who think so and practice so arent really in love. There is a difference betn being in love and being in the idea of love. Men know what they are doing. They know when they are treating their women right or not. If u know that ur man is not treating u right then u know that there is no love that he had for u or there never was love at anytime. There could be a difference in the level of romance a man performance as the relationship settles down. Like they may not start being as romantic as they use to be like the first year or relationship or whatever but the true love if he ever had for u never changes. My suggestion is to have a serious talk and move on. If ur a confident , independent woman and would think that u can survive without man....its time for u to leave him and move on to other things in ur life.