Love yourself first....i don't think one can really love anyone without loving thyself first.....If you do not like the personality of the person, then you won't like it in the future too....clear cut...a person's nature NEVER changes...their habit might change, but the nature doesn't. check out the thread where I discussed about love...you might find it helpful, you might not...but it doesn't hurt to try. :) http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/OpenThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=34310