PB, i know what are you feeling now. I am also going through same situation. I was in love with a girl for long time. I still love her a lot. i guess, i loved her so much and i was always available for her whenever she needed, so she took me for granted i guess. I recently found out that she started cheating me, which created a big issue becasue everyone including our parents and friends knew about our relationship. It is easy to say others such as get over with it, move on, find better one, you deserve better one. but it is not easy in reality. we dont love people thinking that if this does nt workout, we will find better, or if we find better, we will leave this person and go out with better one. if we keep on thinking that life will never end. there is always a better person that you think you find a good one now. that was my point, and i told same thing to all the people around me. i loved the girl, and it was not my fault. when i asked her if i did anhting wrong to her, she could nt answer. now, she says, lets wait soemtime and time will tell what will happen in future. i am still sticking with same girl and we do talk but not like before. i am hopeful that with my love and commitment, she wil be back on eday. and i also hope your boyfrined also will come back to you one day. i know its hard, actally hardest thing i have ever faced.