This is the situation created by ourselves,we dont bother to tell them that how tough our life is over here,how hard we have to work to earn money and take care of ourselves,we just go back to nepal and start to show-off as soon as we land on TIA as if our money really grows on money fricking plant,thats nepali style earn less but still show as if you got money to buy the whole country...amazing mitra maybe you haven't done that,ok i accept but many guys who are abroad tend to do that and have done that,i know few guys who still brag about their cars they have bought in amrika and sometime send me their photos posing infront of their cars,they just want to tell that he is having a hell of a life over there,which i will assume he is, because middle classed people like us in nepal dont own a car and we even dont own a personal bike,its common for the whole family i mean dad,brother,myself and sometime mom calls us to pick her up from some place....seeing the personal car, yes, we do assume that your money grows in money plant(i know buying car is cheaper over there than in nepal)...and why dont you just tell your friend that how hard it is to earn money and live a good life in europe?? how hard it is to earn and spend at same time??why dont you tell him that you earn in euro and have to spend in euro not in rupees?why dont you tell him its same like earning around 5000 ruppes and spending that in nepal??are you ashamed to tell that to your friend??if he's your good friend than he will certainly understand and believe you but you couldnt do that,could you?? because you want your friend to think that you are nothing less than a "khaire",this trend of "bidesh jaane nepali people" has brainwashed the mind of young generation,everybody these days want to go to US or europe as if money will just show up as soon as they reach there,which wont happen and they turn up depressed and go on missing like some girl few days back.i think you havent been able to clear things up with your friend,just tell him the reality and if he doesnt believe you than he doesnt trust you and if he doesnt trust you then he is not your loyal friend...just try once,i hope i have helped you to tackle with your friends mail(s).