choosing whoever the bride wants---her personal choice, shame on those nepali heroes around her. 51 guest limitation-not feseable in realistic situation, who to discard usually economically and socially lower in the circle of relatives and friends. In my opinion limit to 100+ is ok, but beyong 51, the host will have to pay tax to govt on head count basis, but 3500+ is astronomical. Koiralas are also blue blood of the country, do have money to spend, what socially influencing than a daughter's marriage, may be it was GP's dream to kanyadan grand-daughter incase undesired happen to him... la la, aba bangladeshi sathi bhetepache jamai musai, kemon achen bhannu parla...