Lonely gurl, fair enough. I was also writing what I felt here. Bibas100, why do you have to be so condescending? I was merely pointing out what I felt. It is fruitful to be engaged in a meanigful debate, but trying to end a debate using condescending remark doesnt lead you anywhere. You said this: Dude, you are trying to get a wife who can work like a slave. Probably that was a response to this statement from the advertiser: in accordance with the interest, caliber, vision and academic as well as professional backgrounds of the lady life partner who will certainly play a crucial role to show me the proper way where we both can direct our lives with a higher aim. I dont think a wife has to be a slave to be supportive. You could look at it in so many different ways. Not being unsupportive is also being supportive, isnt it? In this sense, not sl*eping around with different people, not abandoning her kids is also supportive. But you and Lonely Gurl were bit*ching about this guy for wanting a supportive wife. Perhaps he could have added his age and se*ual orientation; I agree. p.s. I am a male and my se*ual orientation is straight. But I am no marriage counsellor or aything. Peace