I think lonely gurl brought an important issue out there. This guy wants his wife to work for his interests. Dude, you are trying to get a wife who can work like a slave. Comn man! Its your choice to find someone you think fit for you but its largely unfair...unless of course there is someone who would actually "pray" and "submit" to you like they used to do in fairy tales...the folklores of our country..."patibrata patni".... Dude, rather than trying to further your own interests, I think you should think about mutual interests...keep something broad in mind...its not always work that matters..may be after you guys first meet, you will find something new that suits both of you...don't pre-impose your ideas on her... OR are you trying to lead and guide her? I don't know but you should seriously put yourself off such things...At least my wife wouldn't have to face such things...she would be free to pursue her own desires as long as both of us have sufficient time for family...