hey loote, i would just like to say whatever i am saying is truth. i can not give you any proof at this point. i spend whole day here seeking advices so that i could move on. probably you thought that i am making all this, but friend , i am not. i can not tell my gfs name here. i am pretty sure there are so many people around here in sajha who knows her as she went to one of the good school in nepal from where a lot of folks comes to usa. anyways, the case is true. i am not like khutta bhaye jutta jati pani pauchha. i always respected girl and i am kinda of guy who believes in only one girl. this is the main factor i am suffering too mcuh. i have not talked with many friends about it, i jsut did with couple. lets see how it goes. believe me, i am not making anyhting here and this is not fake. this is very real story. why would i spend so much time doing this kinda stuffs. anyways, thanks a lot guys. please keep posting, i want more advices in here. but what i see from most of the post is that let her go and find another one, which is the hardest part for me. i love her so much i just could not let her go, and it is very true that becasue of this nature, she is gettign more far from me.