TO GKR: Your claim that you are keeping yourself from telling the girl how you feel about her sensing you might "hurt" her is totally groundless,.. for as soon you do (tell her) you'll just cease to exist in her life.. let alone you being able to hurt her!! Do her a favor---stop being the thoughtless coward that you are and go tell her how you feel!! liberate the “nice girl” from the soon-to-be hers hell (married life with you) !! --I can bet every penny that i hold….no commonsensical girl is interested in an irrationally feeble-minded opportunist like….. hmm we all know who :O