Dear H2S. I think you are greatly affected by hindi movies. I can envision you as the hero who has this hesitation in the beginning to propose his love coz otherwise the movie will finish off in no time. So he gives her pursuits, starts singing song like " Samhaale hai maine bahut apne dilko, jubaan main phir bhi tera naam aa raha hai". You feel butterfly in the stomach, whenever you think about her, imagine her in your arms. You feel so romantic, you won't dare talk to her though, coz you want yourself romanticizing in those vague dreams more than anything else. Days go by, then months, then years..... *Smack*. Sorry dude that was just a gentle blow on your head to stop you from dreaming and fantacizing. Come to the reality and wake up dude. There is nothing like the *love* which those movies depict. Real life is lot of fun without those so called romantic hindi songs. Wake up dude, grow up... Say no to love and move on. Life is beautiful without it.