The system of arranged marriage has changed...rather than you finding the best match..there are families and friends that arrange for your meeting...you get to know the person for a while...then u decide whether u want to marry or not...i think it has become more like a lov marriage...only difference: your family and friends facilitate the first introduction... For me, its not a big deal...as long as you get to know the person for a while so that you know who you are going to live with..its not like families enforce their choice...they let you decide...they only say..."hey there is this gal next door...what do you think?" nails...u better line with my idea..if u want me to continue a crush on u....lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll