Well it is sometimes better to leave the things the way it is. I am not saying let it happen but first think of yourself. It is not call selfishness. It is being a human being we try to protect our ego. It is normal but just dont go and try hard to justify. What i have learnt is in long term when u surrender and sacrifice? you win a lot. See he called you coz he is hurt. THe main reason behind it is attachement and his expectations. Thats why it is better not have any expectation and let the things go. Just learn to be happy with what ugo in hand than looking at distant horizon. anyway, this is bad things which is on caste and creed? First learn to accpet the ppl and reality. Once u have done that u will see change on yourself, automaticaly u will see change in family and in society then in nation. Well urself is unmanaged and u think of pp, caste and creed. First keep yourself in better place then think of other. tehi ho.............( this world is departmental store where u have lot of varities and choices thats why u enjoy it, the world could have been boring if it could have been full of smae ppl) Remember all our fingers are not same thats why it works as hand , all the fingers are same then it will be useless uhi recovering addict moneyminded seek for world within than outside