mr ashu, I have been reading your postings in sajha for some time. i really admire u as an intellectual.you have some good logics and intresting way to put it. BUT sometimes you tend to go over the edge. I have noted 2 flaws (i am sorry but i did not get other word ) 1. you use your beautiful language, talk sweet and try to convience. but sometimes you cannot mold truth, no matter how strong ur language is, 'truth is truth'. the world is not always gray...there are some blacks and whites too. 2. you said, "unless we put our egos aside". don't you think that applies to you too. may be in a subconcious way but ego is written all over ur writings. you try very hard to prove that you are above others.