I have full and 100 percent confidence that kiwi gal can take such a small irritation create by non other than ppl who loves giving pain. One thing is simple if u know how to practise humilation then none can hurt it. The main reason behind frustation, pain and anger is nothing but irritation. When ppl get irritate they get hurt. For me i can see kiwi can take it easily and those ppl who are trying to irritate her will go through tension which they expect her to go. They have a expectation that she will go mad and get crazy. She will start to aruge big time but just igoner them. One thing they dont know is " Real man knows how to sacrifice not to compromise" well i am with you at least morally gal uhi recovring addict moneyminded ACCEPT THE PPL AS THEY ARE