Nails, since you asked, about anal sex, actually you can tell if she's into backdoor action quite easily. For one, gals who do anal have a hard time controlling their bowel movements. Second, the anus will look like a cauliflower. You have a point about oral. Aren't you in high school? Tell us about "rainbow parties": http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rainbow+party&defid=1003777 I am not an open-minded(like I am about anything) person about this, never will be. My post was a bit sarcastic, but yes, my wife's gotta be a virgin, or I'm gonna dump her so fast she won't know what hit her. That's the bottomline.