BathroomCoffee, Of course it is "chautari" and chautari is a community. A community where people from all walks of life come share their ideas and it is a place to relax, a place where you can speak your mind. Why dont you think that social rules apply here in Sajha? You also need to be considerate of others. Do not do anything other that what you would do in a living room when your family members are present. Of course I am not asking to refrain yourself from expressing your erotic feelings rather do it with your like minded friends. There are lots of places in the cyberworld for you to share such feelings, not sajha please!! Please have fun all you want but not in the expense of others.