marrying a white, i don't think, implies being liberal or conservative for that matter. ajkal parents haru le chora chori ko kura kattna sakdainaan, that is why they succumb to their chidlren's desires, no matter how they feel. my famiy will have to accept if i tell them i want to marry a forigner, but they wont' be thrillleeed about it, that is what i am saying. i never thought u were racist, i mean u say things, every body says things in this board. that is why i was surprised when you said you dont believe in interracial marriages. as long as people make can make it work, they are fine. tara i think, for a marraige to be truly successful, the couple needs to share same cultural, socia et. al backgrounds.i i know u have issues gainst durga pokhrel, but lets set that aside, her marraige with a british guy worked out just fine, adn they have three sons. she is successufl, he is sucessful. i have a half nepali half german friend and inspite of a 18 year difference, worked out just fine. so i dont' want to generalize, but i would not personaly go for a interracial marraige, because i would not want to upset my family ot want to upset my family eihter. me gotta go. talk to u later hai.