Well I find that the ethnicity is skewed here in sajha with regards to gender. Because what some guys say refer to the mongoloid girls and what some girls say refer to the mongoloid guys. I find that each ethnic group in nepal has it's own beauty. So yes, Aznshawty you are right. We should just see each other as we are. I find newari, bahun, gurung, magar, rai...all to have their own beauty, their own sexiness. I think same should be true to guys. Besides, while big boobs on girls may be good during the youth, as they cross 40....it's not what i'd want because they start to sag and start a marathon as to which one of them will hit the waist first. As far as the guys are concerrned, having a hot body definitely a plus but I think being able to please your woman is more important. On top of that, nepali guys and girls, most of them in the US, England whatever, are primarily second generation- meaning we are all boiler chicken- MAD HOMEWORK IN HIGHSCHOOL back in Nepal and No play, or very little. I was lucky enough to be in martial arts while squeezing in school time and getting a punishment for being late evryday but I made it and maintained my body and even I found it hard to keep up with it because of the bad food and the schoolwork. By the time I was here, I had gained some pounds. Similar situation with girls. In fact they face a bigger problem as far as bodies are concerned. So boys, instead of pointing fingers first. look at how big your own pointer is and how nice the body that pointer is attached to is!!! lol!!!