well president, if this girl..you were about to make her your wife...so i guess you guys must have dated for quite a few years or even lived together.......and must have a lotta love for each other...what i dont get is...even after that..and almost ready to get married...what changed your mind..i mean if she was not understanding, wasnt she always like that or just all of a sudden changed her attitude and became like that...............well anwyays...best wishes for both of you.....