we all have been, or will be in a relation, where you will be the "giver" and he/she will be the "taker", no matter what you do, how many dozens roses you buy, how good of a lover you are in bed, your love is just not reciprocrated, you're not appreciated, she/he always finds something wrong in you, she/he rather wants to talk to their friends rather than be with you, and slowly and slowly you feel like the whole relationship is going down the drain, and you are the only one who's trying to put and effort and make it work...given that you really love this person....... you get sad, not to mention slow depression, and shit like that, but you just cant let go.........dont worry guys n gals, if you've never felt like this before...you will....eventually...... so given all the facts.....when is the right time to say f**** this and let go.....