It is one thing to get jealous and use that as a motivation to take a step forward, and its other thing to get jealous and curse those people just because they did not take up the same route that you did and that they still ended up better than what you ended up with. Life is not a sequence where you have to pass through each and every intermediate steps to reach a destination; you can easily reach the destination by following alternate routes. For Christ's sake, winning a DV is not a crime. Seriously, how many of you really think that you deserve to be where you are?