M5 I dont have anything against you...........you do make a point but Im just trying to write to mr thug as I quoted earlier I am proud to be A Nepali for better or worse...it is my destiny........as for our cultural differences its our problem and we should make it our main concern of debate .....not America's centuries long legal battle of immigration...... .I'm completely with you on the point that ...our country is in a great turmoil right now as of the tradiotional cultural differences...i feel that its sad but it is yet another battle we as Nepalese haveto face .....and proposing to make changes any to it is to challenge centuries old tradiotional.....but I m for change and believe we are all Nepali....as for Madhise......they chose their own destiny....and life style.....work ethic......clothing ....presenting completely different out looks and culture...now do I have a problem....absoutely not...where in the world will vegetable arrive at youyr door step ...and garbage taken care of....???only in Nepal....They do all the hard work and I appauld them for that...will that change others veiw of them......dunno......who has the answer???Do you so dont question me....Oh as for me bragging ....no no read my words........I do make money but I spend them here too ....rent school...food...gas....clothing....all basic needs to live.......and about Bhutanese refuge...I have no clue.....recently heard rumors that it has become a major maoist recruitment area.......I am really speechless, clueless and i am certainly not a politician....my post here in this kurakani is not making any changes nor is yours so keep it down..............Peace