There is no right or wrong questions or solution in such cases. One has to go with the situaton and compromise with it. Definitely parents can't be avoided neither GF. However GF is avoidable as well. Make the right decision as time comes. 1. talk with girl, explain the situation. 2. if she says that is fine (leave me), in short term definitely that will be hard. 3. gradually you will learn to Take Sas with out rememebering her. 4. Jindagi Ho jasari pani chalchha, but grab the best out of it. 5. You will begin to like and or love Bahuni -chosen by parents- in long term anyway. if that would have to be your option. 6. You make your choice. -GOOD LUCK ! BD