I liked the comments of sumankomal- I am not forgeting where I am from just only because I am here in US. I was with them for 17 yrs. They did every thing for me and never asked anything. For the first time they are objecting on something. I kno how tensed they might be feeling rite noe. I don't want to be happy just killing their happiness. I will not marry that gal without their permission. I won't marry all my life otherwise. I think that won't hurt their reputation in society.