Well, to think of it, we compliment each other. Men offer protection, physical and emptional for women. In return men get rewarded through quality sex from their female partners. Because we think about sex more often doesnt mean anything bad, why is it given a negative connotation? If it were a bad thing, the world would be filled with molesters and rapists and what not. But thats not quite case is it? Also IFc, while men do think about sex more often, women have a higher desire is that a lot of those similar studies show as well. So I guess that evens out. While I do think that men may only get partial of their pleasure during sex, perhaps it is because "YOU LADIES" don't contribute enough? Ok, you may have "woman on top", heck it took a Vatsyayana to write in his famous book of sex the "kamasutra" to teach most of the female wordl about that position. Apart from a few of those positions, we do the grunt work women! So maybe if next time you worked a bit harder at it, maybe we wouldt get a bulge in our pants more often as you think!!! Besides, it definitely proves that women crave sex more and don't care about their partners during sex. My point- Next time ladies, think about making comments like these. We both need each other and I know I'd treat my wife like a goddess. Both sexes love sex and love to enjoy, lets stop counting who does the better job or who craves it more? cuz there have been sluts and there have been murderous men!