maya_launi_ho, in your case, you should turn to God and pray because you NEED a woman!!!!! hehe. just kidding. yes i believe in god, not in idols and stuff, but in an omnipresent, omnipotent spiritual energy that guides us all. this energy IS God. but then the argument often goes if God exists why is there so much suffering and pain ...well i don't know the answer to the question. may be its our attachment to materialism, accodring to Buddishm. what about u? do u still believe in God after all your attempts at winning a woman's heart??