nails, i am around your age. i ain't that old. i am sorry i made you feel so bad. i did not mean to ruin your day. i just began commenting on your thread becasue i had read it previously and it brought back memories of some pretty thoughtful conversations. i was not aware i coudl not disagree with you. i was not aware that anyone would take this silly thing so seriously. i am not minizming your voice. i see you ha ve a pretty loud voice. i didnt say anything shitty to you. i was telling you there could things taht are far far worse in life and one has to learn to deal with it. dont' know what else to say to you. since you are so sensitive and since i hurt your feelings, i am sorry again. pelase realize that it is only a poem. i did not know that such a coment would be soooooo highly offenseive to you. i don't know why we made this such a big deal. and pelase dont' let any random stranger like me ruin your day. u dont' even know me. don't take these thigns persoanlly. i hope you feel better after this . and have a good rest of teh evening!