Girl Interruped "Crushes" are always temporary in the first place and that is the very nature of crush. It is the reason why it is called crush. Looks like you have confusion about the definition of "crush" in the first place. I always like crushes and always have been in cursh with someone or the other. I know it is not any harmful for me at all because crushes are always temporary in nature. It will always go away after sometime probably to have new crush on someone else. I've always enjoyed it.