hmmmmmm.......! :D i can tell from experience that you can give both all you have but it just won't be enough for the other person no matter what you do ke! :) :) so they both suck, just keep out of both of them and when you're getting old and you really need someone to help you out when you're sick and stuff then just get married ke! and you're done ni! :) :) or you could always hire someone to look after you in your old age or someone might feel sorry for you and give you medicine in you sick bed ni! but love and relationships! hahaha! you're kidding me right? :D :D cause you just can't trust people in this world, they all look towards only their benefits ni and when you can't trust anyone then there is NO WAY that a relationship could develop and hmm.. love okay say you fall in love with somone but if you don't go on to develop a relationship that love thing or infatuation will evetually die out! tadha, that's what i think! :D :) and hmm.. if it doesn't go away then you just haha messed up your whole life so the best thing to do is: Stay out of it! :P and don't make me say later on when you suffer like hell - I told you so!! (wink,wink) :P